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This is another piece of art I worked on involving some of the fandom "fetishes" and trying to get a "realistic" point of view about them from characters. This one is about being a femboy in the furry community. It was a little difficult to really type out what I wanted to say about the whole topic, but I was limited in space and wanted to keep the blog as simple as possible. Im not a website designer, so I kept the site as simple as I can. Heh. I tried to make it as believable as possible.

Also, I don't know if I am using the right term: Femboy. Some describe them as Crossdressers, cunt-boys, sissy-boys and girly boys. Which is correct in this case?

I did a lot of research on this one because there are several points of view about Femboys/Crossdressers. I went to Fchan, Furaffinity, Paws, HardBlush, Hot Cider and other femboy websites that show various styles of how artists draw feminine boys in whatever situation. A lot of sites seem to have one major character to their categories and libraries: Marty from HardBlush. I used that character as reference and tried to picture someone who is a fan of Marty's work ( the artist's illustrations ) and wanted to try to become someone like him without losing himself. However, the more I dug into the femboy fandom, the more confused and frustrated I became. Many images all look the same: same style, same concept, same colors, same sexual situation. Almost every picture looked alike and there wasn't enough room to really research the topic. I went to more websites outside the fandom and found almost the same thing. That is where I changed my point of view. I looked at it on more of a mental/spiritual side and spoke with a few who knew some femboys themselves.

With what I gathered ( and with a HUGE amount of help from tsunami-dragon :icontsunami-dragon: ), I put it into the image, describing a male horse who is feminine in nature and dresses up in clothing that reveals his curves and feminine posture. He wants to be who he is without being involved in sexual acts. However, it is hard for him because everyone things that all males who are female in appearance are extremely gay and present themselves as sexual playthings. He is also a horse and being well endowed, it is hard for him to not be a sexual eye candy to others. He gets frustrated and tries to still be himself while dealing with the negative view points of others who don't believe or understand his point of view.

That is when he describes something more in the femboy fandom than just that: someone who is comfortable with their body and is comfortable with their sexuality. They celebrate their youth and beauty in the manner that feels comfortable to them. They were troubled as a child, or grew to understand themselves that they are who they are and show it. They feel comfortable with their female side of their soul and heart that they express it by dressing in female clothing. Its almost like celebrating or supporting females and female rights in the world...except sometimes they take it a bit to far and turn it into a fetish for gay men or for males who are straight but want to dominate a guy who looks very much like a girl.

Some people and friends call me "feminine" in nature and that I have a skinny femboy body myself even though I am not a femboy. I take it as a complement ^_^, but I really dont see myself wearing tight outfits and wearing makeup. Someone ( who will remain nameless ) in the past tried that when he took me out shopping years ago, but I didn't feel right in those clothes ( nor did they fit on the southern side... )

DISCUSS? What are your takes on this? Do you want to add any points that would agree or disagree with this? You might have more knowledge or might know someone who does: artists, cross-dressers, femboys, friends of them. Any. I’m just trying to learn more about it. Im curious.


- Ookami Kemono

Femboy Blog Page © 2009 Alex Cockburn.

FYI: If you didn't know or figure out already, ALEXEI is my real name IRL.
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Femboy9393 Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I like that you added the point that being a femboy/cross-dresser/transvestite does not automaticly make you homosexual, infact verrrrryyy few are actually gay, i my self am a femboy(hence thy name) and i am straight and have a wonderful girlfriend who supports me 500% in this(she thinks it is quite cute)
LeewaMiru Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
cuteness overload ^^ hehe I love his pose I'm a femboy myself and I'm open to questions nwn
AlicShadow Featured By Owner Sep 1, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Hi :3 This is really cool and cute ^^ do you think you could make like a base ? where people could put a picture, info, and make their own little blog, as long as they gave you credit ? Thank you for taking your time to read my comment <3 Bye,
ashborne69 Featured By Owner May 29, 2013
fen boys turn me on , if I had one as a b/f i'd take very good care of him and never be mean
Dasshadow571 Featured By Owner Dec 24, 2012
Mr-Psycho-Burger Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2012
This is so cute. Femboys are adorable, and I love this.
ProtoCross Featured By Owner Oct 23, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
StrawberryRuby Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2012
I have always had this thing for boys with curvy bodies. I'm not sure why, but something is just so beautiful about a male that has a feminine appearance. It's not the same with looking at a real girl, either. There isn't a spark with females. Something is so pleasing to my eyes when I see the soft, curved form of a boy, and my heart melts for one wearing make up. <3

My attraction to femboys isn't strictly lust or for aesthetics, either. Boys with more feminine personalities are just so much sweeter and kinder than the more douche-y brand that are obsessed with out doing their competition (I may sound like I'm type-setting but, I find competitiveness a major turn-off and most boys I meet showcase that trait). Femboys are sweeter and more considerate. They show a larger understanding of a girl's feelings from my experience. The tendency to be cleaner and more careful of their looks make them a lot better in my eyes.

It that kind of personality that I keep running into is what really makes them attractive to me. I used to fantasize about holding one and caring for them, protecting them the best I could and treat them like the person they want to be. My current boyfriend is quite feminine (though does not cross dress) and he is such an angel. I'd never let anything bother him no matter what.

Tl;dr To me, femboys represent a kind of gentle, fragile side of male beauty. They are meant to be understood and loved just the way they come.
TheSupremeOverlord Featured By Owner Feb 28, 2012
This is quite interesting, one of the few pieces I've seen where a femboy is not in a sexual themed event/situation. It's actually funny, but I can state here that I have been called a femboy before. As I stated in a previous comment, one of my friends even got to the point of asking if I was gay. To this day, I still don't know where they got that idea from...I don't wear feminine clothing, I am not feminine (I admit that I care for other and that I found myself comforting some of them several times), so why did they think I was gay/feminine? The mystery remains unsolved...
FeatherSpiral Featured By Owner Nov 22, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
I don't know, I've seen plenty of cute, nonsexual pictures. Romance, snuggling, nuzzling, going out, stargazing...
Though I'd say, since those things can be done IRL, people don't feel the need to represent them and fantasize about them. I mean, what's the point of imagining yourself staring up at the stars, cuddled in your lover's lap, if you can do it for real?

Besides, not everyone makes pictures, and artists themselves aren't necessarily being very active. So if you research art, your results will be highly biased towards the tastes of artists, and the most active ones in particular. Or those who request/commission artworks because they can't draw.
And from my previous point, you'll understand that the most active artists tend to be the ones with the least plausible fetishes. Ridiculously big genitals, harsh domination, sex without romance.

BTW, "cuntboy" is someone who's physically different, overall male but with female "parts" (no breasts).
moorienz Featured By Owner May 20, 2011
Be true to yourself, you are very talented.
ProtoMatt123 Featured By Owner Mar 6, 2011
omg I can relate to this drawing so much!!!
Upstageseeker Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2010
cant discuss tonight , but like one of my favorite artists is Onta, and yes you probabaly know hima nd afew others run hardbluhs, they have a FA and they're on DA. I don't know what drives people to expand the femboy in furry , but it is quite interesting, its why i like Onta's work.
Timon-Berkowitz Featured By Owner Oct 27, 2010
This is wonderful...

Don't use the term c***boys as it is rather harsh and refers to something I think you would not like... not at all a femboy.

I would also like to add that your words on this subject make it a very important eduactional item for those males who are more feminine in nature... it helps them understand these feelings better. Which makes it to me very good that it is not a 'mature' image. Therefore you can help reach out to youths with it here who are also experiencing these same personality inclinations, even feel better about themselves. We need this especially with the tragic rash of gay teens and young adults. Had they had support or a better understanding of themselves, they might have survived. Alltogether, its both well done and educationally important.... and I'm also glad you preserved his horse snout! XD So many femboy artists reduce it to just a anime face and you loose the beauty of that horsey face. I appplaude you. :clap:
FreakyShadows Featured By Owner Oct 19, 2010
yay for femboys!!! :D
brutaka359 Featured By Owner Jul 16, 2010
I love femeboys! :D
xFOX-EAR-BOIx Featured By Owner Jun 18, 2010
realy asome peice, i like the insight and the attention to detail in the writing ^-^
femeboy <3 x
Dragonfirewolf Featured By Owner Jun 18, 2010
hi there
adr1an123 Featured By Owner Jun 18, 2010
He looks so adorable in that picture ^-^ I don't see why the fandom sees most femboys as a sexual pleasure cause i mean they are adorable and i have hung out with tons of femboys (before i realized my own sexuality) in PA and i still think that they are just great friends. So to all the hornballs, please lay off a little. And to the femboys keep being cute and awesome friends
Wolf-Enigma Featured By Owner Jun 3, 2010
This piece reminded me of that well-known saying, "Don't judge a book by it's cover".

Thank you.
hermafrodite Featured By Owner May 24, 2010  Hobbyist Photographer
that is extrrreeemmmly fem
tails-sama Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2010  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I have never liked the treatment of feminine males in the fandom..the comments rarely seem to go beyond 'hawt!' 'gaaaay' or 'it's a trap!'. >_>
And i can only imagine how much pornography they are included in..I've never wanted to be anything but feminine and cute, I don't want to be associated with all the dirty subby sex stuff.
Purgarot Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2009

this is quite interesting. its a good art medium, I guess, making it seem like a blog page. I think that's really clever. the content has also caused me to think a bit harder about the whole "femboy" thing and partially, my position in it all. I never really saw effeminate males as a non sexual thing until I read this, so I thank you
Timelord216 Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2009  Student General Artist
finally someone set the record straight. good work on this one. i'd like to see you do marty himself. just a challenge
MrParaduo Featured By Owner Dec 7, 2009  Hobbyist Writer
Wow...! This is pretty well designed! The psychology and symbolism are well interpreted so even the less artistically interested may become fascinated with! (Though the pornographic under area was a good additional spice, I'll admit).

You're quite the artist. What will you think of next? :aww:
Swamp-Croc Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2009
Wow. Touching, changes my whole thought about it. I live down South too (horrible if ya ask me) and Im forced to be "straight" due to the risk of a beat down. D: I hate it xD And I'd love to be a femboy, its just the people around me would attempt to pull from behind a truck x x And I haz a deep voice xD. But this really changed my thinking. Good work on it :D ^ ^
adr1an123 Featured By Owner Jun 18, 2010
Oh my god! Tell me about it. I'm pretty much the same way as you
R0gue-66 Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2009  Hobbyist General Artist
This picture really speaks to me. It opens up my eyes too.

The femboy community always sparked my interest. I'm a straight 19 year old boy and I've always dug how femboys accepted their beauty and bodies. I love how they celebrate their youth.
I honestly wish I looked like a femboy. Just to have that feminine beauty would be wondrous.

I can understand how it would feel to be a femboy in the South. I live in eastern Alabama. Nice people, just too closed minded >.<

Thank you for making this picture, it really helped me understand why I have a fascination with the femboy community.
V3NUS4URLOLAURI Featured By Owner Jun 26, 2009
I am a straight woman, and femboys are one of my biggest turn-ons haha
aphasia-Runeic Featured By Owner May 15, 2009  Hobbyist Artist
This one is difficult for me. I'm fairly secure in my own sexuality, but then I am blessed with the self same thin body he wishes he had. I do not crossdress, and sometimes it makes me smile, sometimes it makes me blink, but I am often mistaken for a woman. Usualy at work, sometimes in public. a lot of times, online because of my personal views and methods of speaking. I have wide hips, a narrow waist, because I took gymnastics i have a smoother walk, more flowing. Because of my height, I tend to walk with perfect posture, because the added length of spine misaligns easier. The arch in my back is very prominent, hips tilted due to a fall when i was a child. If you ask me who I am, I simply tell people I am who you see me as.

If I were to speak to this individual, I'd let him know he has to do nothing he does not feel comfortable with. I'd share my experiences witht hings, and accept him for his views. after all, isn't it how we think of ourselves that matters?
wolfmotes Featured By Owner Apr 10, 2009
i can point out a slight insight but nothing overly great.

i see myself in the mirror and have (on more than one occasion) noticed and felt more effeminate (one who acts, feels or appears more feminine) as i look back at myself. also, my emotional state isn't 'manly' where i have a deep voice or able to take and come back with jokes or comments that most guys do.

i grew up with my mother and younger sister, so im more inclined in knowledge about cooking, cleaning, personal looks, etc etc. im also very submissive...keeping to myself most times, in corners of parties or group events, rarely getting out of my room...that kind of thing.

i havent dressed up or worn makeup or anything like that which would 'mark' me as being a 'femboy' or anything like that, but i am more sensitive to jokes, i am more emotional, i have little physical strength or i consider myself very close to being effeminate and as i did research, the more i am agreeing with it.

there are things i notice as well...the voice being one of them. i dont look up at people when i talk and usually look past or away from them, i speak softly and barely yell, and if i were to become gay or bi or anything of the nature, i'd be able to place the hammer on the head with a voice close to that of either side (male or female). it's difficult to admit all this because im embarassed to but i feel better in trying to help. everyone wants to be their own person, and to achieve that, they need to express themselves without fear of being judged, only then can they accept it and shrug off the 'downers'.
hope thats a little penny in the jar of thoughts :3
great work on this, it sure helped me :nod:
take care and have fun
Twinmold1986 Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You're speaking right out from my soul, there are no better words for it.
wolfmotes Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2013
Im late for the response party, but thank you :)
Samansa91 Featured By Owner Apr 9, 2009
wow i really like these blogs, they are so deep in emotion
Xss- Featured By Owner Apr 9, 2009  Hobbyist Digital Artist
If dressing like the opposite sex and trying to be pretty is interpreted by some people as being a sex toy, then we really are in trouble. Very nice pic.
Silkeyn Featured By Owner Apr 8, 2009
This series is fun. As for semantics, "femboy" gets your point across just fine XD.
bluepeach Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009  Student Writer
:plotting: I like it...
13-year-old-artist Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009
Wow dude....thats major deepness. My boyfriend is a femboy but he is realy innocent, not a sex toy at all. Honestly you realy hit it on the head, my boyfriend told me his girly style was actualy inspired by his mother who he respects greatly.

Though the pink night gown and um...hellow kitty "under clothes" i cant explain..
Aelius24 Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009  Hobbyist Digital Artist
A very good point about that particular niche in the fandom. Nice way of looking at it!
AlanonSilverblood Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009
this is really beautiful, i loved your piece on the model fur, she was adorable, and so is this pony boy..... iwant to give him some chocolate! make him fel better... poor boi, all he wants to do is be himself.... i love how you alweays make your work so meaningful!
digitalfruitco Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009  Professional Digital Artist
i'm a crossdresser and what i've noticed is that it's just another part of who i am, people wouldn't guess me to be of the alternative sexualities if i'm not wearing a dress or feminine clothing, you seem to have nailed most of the femboy stuff but seriously tho, people have a really hard time putting poeple like eddy izzard(transvestite comedian) into a category or steriotype because they just don't fit
AnkhsPaw Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009  Hobbyist General Artist
Awesome, I love the way you represent your characters and put so much life into them. The blog design is awesome.
helsinki-i Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009
wow i have a friend (who has deviantart too) that this reminds me of
he once told me that if he was ever going to find a male lover, he'd rather find him in a place like a library or somewhere that doesn't have that bouncy, raving feel like a nightclub.
i am realy sick of the abuse that my friend goes through when he slips his girly side :( he's just being himself and don't want to be labeled as anything
stragan Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009
haha you mean me
helsinki-i Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009
how did you find me here
you watch o-kemono too :p

yes i was talking about you <3
GS47 Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009
Personally I find it kinda awkward, especially since my roommate has those 'femboy' proportions and his name is Alexey (yes with a "y"). However, I don't find it suprising that people stereotype each other. He get a lot of remarks about being gay said about hikm behind his back, and being his roommate only puts me in the situation where people are asking me if I know. Then, they also get suspicious and wonder if I'm gay just because I room with the kid. Honestly, I'm not sure which way he swings, but it's not my business, and it's really no one else's. :(
Speckled-Paws Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009
I've seen a lot of femboys and they never really appear to be happy in life. It's like they can't belong to either group (men or women). They're too girly to be accepted as men and women reject them because they're obviously male. It seems like a terrible feeling to have.
feilen Featured By Owner Nov 26, 2009   Digital Artist
It depends on what happens to them personally.
I'm replying to this comment because it's strangely accurate, I'm a femboi simply because I actually identify as both male and female equally in terms of gender, but that really isn't a problem for most people.

And actually, a lot of girls like the more feminine type of mate, instead of the stereotypical muscle-brained types that you might find otherwise. My mate is female and identifies the same way, but is just physically female.
Speckled-Paws Featured By Owner Nov 30, 2009
I've never encountered a woman that preferred a feminine man but people like what they like.
squirrelmobster Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2009  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
It's unfortunate that stereotype has been created but there is good news. Not everyone thinks that way. There are some small communities in which it is perfectly acceptable to dress and act as this profile suggests. However, I do realize that even in these communities the predominant idea is that everyone is gay. Even so, these communities are more accepting and open to all types of gender bending behavior.
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